What do you find more unbearable: watching a video of yourself, or listening to a recording of your voice? Why?
Video is the hardest. Audio – sound enough like my adoptive mom, that I figured it would finally make me fit in. Haa, haaa, haaaaa.
The video made me see that I was many inches taller than my whole family. The video made me see how my own siblings stared at my tall assed self.
I always felt like I didn’t fit in. Each thing I saw made it uglier and uglier. I was just sure I wasn’t worthy of love of any sort. I was too tall, was too ugly, was too unlovable. Damn.
Video seemed to magnify the negative in my own eyes. Too bad it took me so many years to start to appreciate myself. I could have saved the younger me so much pain.